Conversation topics iceberg

Conversation topics iceberg is an iceberg chart topic from r/IcebergCharts. The highest-scoring chart on it, "Conversation topics Iceberg. It's niche, but I was bored.", was posted by u/r_e_c_e_d_i_n_g on 19 June 2021 and had about 1,694 upvotes when it was collected.^[1]

Each level of this chart names the person you would share a conversation topic with, from casual acquaintances down to "No one, ever". The poster called it "niche, but I was bored". The final tier is labelled [REDACTED] and holds only "height/weight". Entries reflect the chart author's choices and are not verified fact.

Tiers[edit]

Level one: Casual Convo[edit]

name
plans for the day
favourite films
the weather
'how's work?'
pets
football/soccer team
TV shows discussion
favourite foods
what I find funny
'so, where do you live?'
plans for the week

Level four: Trusted Family[edit]

financial crises
medical issues
closest friends
genuine career worries
moving out
difficult advice
siblings
drug experiences
family deaths
'how's work really?'

Level five: My Therapist[edit]

closest friends
stupid questions
difficult advice
my sexuality
recurring nightmares
actual mental health issues
childhood traumas
yellow richard
deaths of friends
genuine fears and complexes

Level six: My Pet[edit]

real singing voice
"who's the best boy?"
"who is it?"
"is it you?"
"i think it is"

Level seven: That one uncle/aunt[edit]

favourite relatives
real drug experiences
shared genuine interests
politics
criminal history
the birds and the bees
your first swear words
that one Christmas where they called your father a communist
casual racism
dark humor

Level eight: The walls at night[edit]

sex-life
poetry I wrote during emo phase
YouTube history
constant, crushing existential dread
middle name
body image issues
old online friends I made in CoD lobbies and never spoke to again

Level nine: No one, ever.[edit]

sexual fetishes
voices
the third friend group
real favourite music
friend's secrets
cousin is actually my brother
siblings secrets
grandfather's secret family
parents' previous partners

[REDACTED][edit]

height/weight

Source[edit]

Original post: u/r_e_c_e_d_i_n_g. Conversation topics Iceberg. It's niche, but I was bored.. Reddit (r/IcebergCharts). 19 June 2021. Retrieved 29 October 2026.

References[edit]

↑ u/r_e_c_e_d_i_n_g. Conversation topics Iceberg. It's niche, but I was bored.. Reddit (r/IcebergCharts). 19 June 2021. Retrieved 29 October 2026.

[top-1] u/r_e_c_e_d_i_n_g. Conversation topics Iceberg. It's niche, but I was bored.. Reddit (r/IcebergCharts). 19 June 2021. Retrieved 29 October 2026.

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